Empathic Compassion

To break the spell of our own self interest over others situation and needs, we should make strong efforts to see things from their point of view. However, genuine compassion lies beyond empathy, which can result in debilitating sadness, or confusion regarding a correct ethical position, when the remedy of compassion/empathic identification is over done. I have seen many compassionate people who move from empathy to anger instead of continuing on to true cultivation of compassion. Domo Geshe Rinpoche

"Um den Bann zu brechen, der unser Selbstinteresse über die Situation und die Bedürfnisse anderer stellt, sollten wir große Anstrengungen unternehmen, um die Dinge aus ihrer Sicht zu sehen. Allerdings geht echtes Mitgefühl über Empathie hinaus, die in lähmender Traurigkeit oder Verwirrung über die korrekte ethische Position enden kann, wenn das Heilmittel der mitfühlenden/empathischen Identifikation übertrieben zum Einsatz kommt. Ich habe viele mitfühlende Leute erlebt, die von Empathie zur Wut übergingen, anstatt mit der wahren Kultivierung des Mitgefühls fortzufahren." DGR

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