Perfecting the Art of Attracting Another
Part of the allure of love, the craving to find someone to love, is that folks are trying to learn how to perfect the art of attracting another. The allure of love, coming from deep inside, means something pushing emotions, as well as promising a feel-good feeling. Actually, by the time you grab a special someone, put them through the wringer a few times, love doesn’t look as nice as it did a first glance. However, it is the allure of love, finding the perfect person, which keeps trying, with the hope of success while becoming more confident in the process to keep looking. This is part of the basic urge behind the allure of love; an immature view of love, which absolutely must be carefully uplifted into a more mature form. Why? Because you are really going to get hurt, whether you are the aggressor or victim! This form of grasping is going to hurt you and others repeatedly until grasping is turned off and we see a better way. ~Domo Geshe Rinpoche ~~~ ""Ein Teil der Verlockun...